
GETTING MARRIED ON A FRIDAY?
IS IT REALLY A GOOD IDEA?
Over the years, I’ve photographed quite a few weddings on both Fridays and Sundays. Often, this has been because the couple had a special connection to the date or because, for various reasons, Saturdays simply weren’t an option. It could be that the couple started planning a bit late and didn’t want to wait another year, or maybe it just wasn’t that important whether it was a Friday or Saturday.
That said, for many “Friday couples,” the decision often comes down to financial reasons. Saving money where possible can make a big difference, and avoiding a Saturday wedding can actually have a significant impact on costs.
It’s no secret that Saturdays are the most popular day of the week to get married. Over 80% of couples tie the knot on a Saturday between May and October. With approximately 35,000 weddings each year in Denmark, there’s naturally stiff competition for popular dates, venues, and vendors. The easiest way to guarantee full prices for wedding services is to choose a Saturday during peak season.
However, if you consider the remaining 20% of weddings—those held in the off-season or on a Friday or Sunday—there are actually many opportunities to explore. Of course, there are also a few downsides. Here are some pros and cons of choosing a Friday wedding instead.
PROS
1. Cost Advantage: Fridays are generally less in demand than Saturdays, meaning wedding vendors often offer lower prices for non-Saturday events. If you choose a date outside of the summer season, there’s even more potential to save. Opting for a Friday wedding could significantly reduce your overall wedding budget. For those who are more sustainability-minded, there are many Facebook groups where former couples sell their wedding items at discounted prices.
2. Availability: Since Fridays aren’t as popular as Saturdays, you’re more likely to secure the wedding vendors you really want. Popular vendors are often booked far in advance, especially on Saturdays during the summer months. By choosing a Friday, you increase your chances of securing the vendors that best match your style and preferences.
3. Flexibility in Planning: A Friday wedding can provide greater flexibility when planning your big day. You can opt for a longer ceremony and reception without worrying about guests needing to leave early the next day. This allows you to create more memorable moments and celebrate your love in a more relaxed way.

CONS
1. Logistics and work days: Some of your guests may have difficulty taking time off work or arranging transportation, especially if the wedding is scheduled for early in the day. You may be unlucky to be hit with delays, as Friday traffic can be heavy in many places. It is important to give your guests enough time to organize their plans and ensure they can attend your big day.
2. Early preparations: Planning and preparing for the wedding can be more stressful, as you have to handle the details and coordination on a workday when other things can come into play. You may need to arrange for extra help to handle the wedding preparations.
3. Energy Level: Since Friday is usually the end of a work week, some of your guests may be tired or less energetic compared to a Saturday, when they may have been able to sleep in a little longer. Especially if they also worked in the morning. This can affect the overall mood and festive atmosphere of your wedding day. However, this is not something I have experienced very much the times I have been away on a Friday. Once it is all underway, it feels just like any other Saturday.

SO?
Ultimately, it's up to you. Whether it's a Friday or a Saturday - there will be very few couples who don't have to compromise on anything. Fortunately, there are usually really good alternatives to what would have been your first priority. If you choose a Friday, there may be more things to tick off your first choice. But on the other hand, there will be some other things you have to live with opting out of.
If it were up to me personally, I would try to choose a Saturday as much as possible, as there will be the most practical things that would fall into place. And there will be the least amount of hassle for the guests to fit it into a busy everyday life. However, this will also mean that the finances are more fixed, which may require a little more saving. So it often also depends on how early you start planning.
But with that said: If your budget is a bit tight or you just don't want to spend too much money. And if you're a little late with the planning - a Friday wedding can be the solution to a lot of the problems you might be facing. The friends and family who really want to be there to celebrate you will probably have to take the day off. They'll know that well in advance. And those who use a Friday as an excuse not to come, when they know it with several months' notice - may not even be able to come to the wedding anyway.